I don’t regret copping out on the expensive hotels and resorts. Lucky for me (and my wallet), I was able to use a friend’s timeshare near Poipu Beach, Kauai. I’ll even admit sneaking into the nearby Hilton Hotel to take advantage of their pool shaped like a lagoon, complete with water-slide. At night, my new husband and I would walk down the dark marshy paths to the beach and reach the ocean with a bottle of wine in hand. The days were spent lazily, with scheduled massages, decadent food, and embracing the warmth of the sun.
When I got home from my trip, everyone wanted to know how it went. Did you see a luau? Yes, I’d say and it was spectacular. How was the food? Epic. Did you seek out the “xyz” waterfall? Err… no, I’d respond. Did you try parasailing? No… we didn’t get that far.
This is when I began thinking about how we could have made more of our Hawaiian honeymoon. So, here are a few things to consider before saying your vows and boarding that plane to paradise.
Snorkeling
During our stay, we rented snorkeling gear at Poipu Beach and tread into the surf where we’d wrestle with our rubber gear and clear our mask until the sea was somewhat visible… you know, in between the waves, children and rocks that constantly disrupted the water. Now, also imagine fighting the tide and hope that you and your new spouse are good swimmers. When we finished, my toe was bleeding and I couldn’t help but think– this wasn’t how I pictured it.
So, before you think that beach snorkeling will aptly replace the catamaran boat ride… think again. It’s really worth the money to board a boat for the day, and experience snorkeling in an uninterrupted environment. You’re also more likely to encounter a larger variety of sea life; like sea turtles, dolphins, and tropical fish.
I was so upset about our ‘snorkeling’, that I made sure in the following days we would do it properly. There’s only one word for it; breathless.
Hike
Being very much of the opinion that honeymoons are meant to be relaxing, I still regret not seeking out any hiking trails. We drove down to the Na Pali Coast, but that time was spent in a car bumping along a dirt road. I would have much preferred to see it in a more natural setting. A couple we met during at the time share showed us a view of the photos they had taken on the Na Pali Coast trail. The trail arched like a rainbow, they said, you climb over tree roots into the cliffs until you reach a waterfall that turns into a river which flows into the sea. Sigh… I should have done that.
Some people only visit Hawaii once in their lives. So even though it’s your honeymoon, don’t take the time for granted. Experience it with your new spouse; there is nothing more romantic.
Food
When I received my credit card statement, I couldn’t believe how much money we had spent on expensive restaurants. I could have done without some of the indulgence. I recommend visiting the nearby market as soon as possible so that you don’t spend 10.00 for something to just ‘hold you over.’ Remember that you’re most likely in some kind of tourist trap… and very easy to lose track of your spending. I can imagine it’s even easier at a fancy resort if you start using room service.
There you have it- my tried and true “take-aways” about planning a Hawaii honeymoon. Even though your wedding day might just be the most important day of your life… the honeymoon is a beginning to the rest of it.
**MHH would like to thank Anna for sharing her story with us. If you have a Hawaii Honeymoon story, and would like to be apart of our growing website, please email us at: MyHawaiiHoneymoon@gmail.com




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